IS YOUR SPOUSE FALLING OUT OF LOVE WITH YOU? (PART 2)

Don’t badger her. Let her be!

One of the greatest, and first tell-tale signs that all is not well, is the withdrawal of physical intimacy. 

Spontaneous encounters cease to exist.

Nothing is instigated by her any more.

She limits the opportunities, even when you may have planned to woo your prey and set the perfect scene.

Withdrawal of affection is a gut wrenching feeling to deal with, whilst raising a red flag that there is something very wrong.

You may feel she has fallen out of love with you, but is it a temporary thing?

Is there something distracting her?

Are there issues outside of your relationship that you are unaware of, that she is having to deal with?

Unless she has told you outright that the flame has flickered out, and the love she had for you is gone, let’s assume there is something you can do to bring her back.

Don’t Try to Fix It!

Our DNA still carries traces of our ancient ancestors.
The men would hunt, protect and provide the seed to continue generations of the clan.

The women gave birth to those generations, nurtured, cooked and provided a comfortable living environment.

There was no confusing of the roles. Males and females knew what they had to do individually and as a team to survive and thrive.

Today’s society is so different, yet our DNA ensures we, males, go into default mode when a threat presents or a problem needs fixing.

In the 21st Century, the lines have blurred.
I won’t try and explain in detail how men are now expected to behave, and what we are meant to feel, but it is definitely at odds with the very essence of our being.

Although our unconscious response, when faced with a problem, is ‘fix it’, today’s ‘Super Women’ don’t want that.

If you believe that she has fallen out of love with you or her feelings have waned, subtlety and observation are the keys to winning her back.

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