IS YOUR SPOUSE FALLING OUT OF LOVE WITH YOU? (PART 1)

Hello Beautiful people.

Its another day......with another beautiful blog post.
We are still on the Relationship inspirationals talks and teaching.
It's always wonderful and exciting sharing my ideas with you and i'm basically learning too.

Yay,,,let's jump straight into this topic.
Finding out if your spouse is falling out of love with you!!!
When love and a deep connection are not shared, the feelings of emptiness, anger and frustration take over and your ability to function in other roles suffer.

You may ask yourself some of this questions:
1. Why did she fall out?
2. Who changed? You or her?
3. Was there a specific event that brought about her withdrawal of affection?
4. Could you sense something was not right over some months or even years?
5. Can you actually make your spouse love you again?

Women think emotionally and usually act on those emotions.
Their feelings rule. And it's not uncommon for a woman to bundle feelings in together and display the resulted conclusion in a manner that seems totally illogical, inconsistent and out of context.

For male, although they have and display feelings, they act and re-act pragmatically. They  are able to recognize and isolate a situation and then we decide quickly

For us males, although we have and display feelings, we act and re-act pragmatically.

We are able to recognize and isolate a situation, and then we decide quickly– do I fix it, do I ignore it, or do I run from it?

Problem solved?! Maybe not always but we can move onto the next thing and re-focus.

Recognizing something that is not right

Even though we are the more pragmatic of the species, we can still sense or feel when something is not right.

Women have a habit of not always expressing how they feel to their partners, rather choosing to withdraw physically and emotionally from you and expecting you to play ‘join the dots’, which can suck you into ongoing attempts to expose the problem, “Is there anything wrong?”

When you sense that all or something is not well with your wife, and you ask the question, “Is there anything wrong?” and her response is a short, sharp, “I’m fine.” She is not!

THANK YOU FOR COMING THROUGH......MUCH LOVE

TRUE FRIENDSHIP

Today we will be talking about True friendship, which is also one of the relationships. 

What are true friendship?
Friendship is one of the pivotal relationships our life circles around. Friends form the important part of our day to day lives and influence us to extents much beyond our common perception.

Though friendship sounds so Universal, some of us do find the concept to be pretty alien. The reason could be anything incompatibility, withdrawn attitude, doubts, insecurity and so!

Below are tips with reference to key the areas we tend to overlook in any relationship. These are not steadfast rules of some kind, but consider them simple tips on relationships (friendships).

Be your own Friend
You must be your own best friend. This is the first and most important step. If you don't do this right, then you screw the whole process. You have to love yourself and treat yourself the way you want others to treat you. Adore and appreciate yourself for all possible amazing things you can think about yourself.

In friendship, what matters most is not what you get but what you give.
Don't get caught up focusing on what your friends do for you and you don't. Pay attention to what you give to the relationship with them.
All you need to do is, do your part and do it good.

Loving selflessly and generously Never hurts
Don't be afraid to give. 
Many people have tough time with their relationships because they are intimidated by the very thought of loving generously.
The reason why love is so intimidating, is because of the possible chance of love not being reciprocated.

Let me make two things clear:
Firstly...Love is not a limited source! You have enough love to give for every living soul.
Love is infinite! So give your love with no fear. It's not going to cost you anything and it comes with tons of personal benefits.

Secondly...Reciprocation is not everything. As I mentioned earlier, you do your part and the rest leave it to your friend.

The nicest of things that your friends have done for you weighs than their actions that hurt you.
Okay......we all make mistakes and disappoint people we love. 
When your friend does something wrong or hurts you, don't cling to it. Leg go, but hold on to the good stuffs forever.

Being selfless does not mean letting people exploit your kindness.

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GREAT TIPS FOR A FIRST DATE

I believe everyone is doing well....I thank God I'm alive and health 😃😄💃

We are here again with another beautiful content, i hope you will love it. I'm basically going to talk more to the guys in this topic, but it's a good content for awareness of the ladies too. 

It's always wonderful and exciting sharing my ideas with you and I'm basically learning too.
We are still on the Relationship inspirational talks and teaching.

Yaaas....let's go straight into our topic for today.

As we all know, all guys they take their lovers on their first dates.
But most guys make big mistakes when it comes to dating.
This is because they fail to understand it is not so many great ideas to implement during their first date. One of which is that it is not necessary for your first date to be expensive.

As a matter of fact your date will be absolutely unimpressed if you try to captivate her with sumptuous gifts, dinners and entertainments.

First date is always full of expectation, it is where many people share their emotions about love.
First impression they say lasts long. The way you express comport yourself on your first date will last long in the heart of your partner.

In order to make a decent impression on your first date it is quite essential that you should mix the whole things effectively, the looks, the accessories and attitude.
These are some of the great first date thoughts.

The motive of your first date is to know each other better.
It is not important to make your first date too romantic...hello, it's just the first day!
It's essential that the place you will choose for your first date should be friendly and your attitude ought to be sufficiently light.

Great tips towards the first date
1. If it is someone you have never met before or someone you don't know, a cheap mid price range venue should be perfect and considered for your first date.
You can decide to walk into a coffee shoe to start things up.

2. Make sure your date sits in a seat with the slightest distraction. This allows them to concentrate on you and prevents them from losing focus. Ladies will always choose the seat with the best view...I love good views too 😜🙈
Be a gentleman and help yourself by pulling out the chair for her, that will make her feel more special.

3. If you don't know your date, it is advisable not to go out for dinner. There are so many wrong things attached to this, one which is that the man will mostly likely insist on paying, which means that he has invested both time and money. Most guys will want a return on their investment leading to so many bad choices and decisions.

4. Next in the line! Don't be late, arrive on time. This imperative for both parties but less important for ladies.
Your punctuality will make a great first impression. The ladies are always late for the date but try not to worry yourself about it and don't get angry with her about it.

5. Meet at the location a far from your home or hers. 
If they request for your home address politely say that you will meet them at the venue....Just be wise 😊

6. I know well that guys will always say yes to anything especially if they are desperate. Try not to make yourself always available because women can notice your desperation miles away.

7. Schedule the date during the week. This is because weekends are too busy making it possible to contend with friends. A lady will likely decline your offer as a lot of them plan their weekends for businesses or with their female friends ahead of time.

8. Be so very careful! Safety is paramount...Do not give your address if you have any doubts about the person.

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HOW TO HEAL YOUR HEART BEFORE VALENTINE'S DAY?

Hello Beautiful people.

Its another day......with another beautiful blog post.
We are still on the Relationship inspirational talks and teaching.
It's always wonderful and exciting sharing my ideas with you and I'm basically learning too.

Yay,,,let's jump straight into our topic for today.
Healing your heart before valentine's day.

The heart is one of the most vital organs in the human body. It keeps your blood flowing to supply oxygen and nutrients to the tissues and removing carbon dioxide and other wastes.

On a spiritual level, our heart is our centre, our being. It contains compassion, unconditional love, self-love, our dreams and desires. Emotional anger, stress and physical inactivity have an adverse effect on your physical heart that can lead to heart disease and strokes. If you are unable to forgive and feelings of resentment are foremost in your mind you can damage your spiritual heart.

When your spiritual heart is broken you are closed to good and bad experiences, you expect the worst, you are ungrateful and unappreciative.

Healing the heart is an essential part of your overall well-being. When your heart is healthy and balanced, you have compassion for yourself and others, you forgive your past. You make space for new experiences and new people and you invite abundance in all forms into your life with open arms. You become curious about life again!

If it is time for you to bring let go of the past and look forward to the future again, here are three gentle yet powerful steps to heal a broken heart:

1. Be honest with yourself
The first step to healing is to admit that your heart hurts.
We are so used to living in the past and holding on tight to our feelings surrounding relatives, partners or friends and events.

2. Forgive yourself, others and life
Forgive those that have wronged you will set you free.
It will send your life in a completely new direction.
Forgiveness always starts with yourself. 
Forgive yourself for allowing certain things.
Forgive yourself for willingly and knowingly putting yourself in certain situations.

3. Accept
The deeper level of forgiveness is acceptance.
Accept that it's the past. Accept that perhaps it had to happen in order for you to be where you are right now.

Keep your heart open. Don't let events and people let you go back to your old hurt and closed self.
You know that you are responsible for happiness.
Become curious about life and people.


This valentine's make you are at peace, heal your heart and give without expecting anything in return, remembering it will come back. Perhaps not from the same source but it will come back.

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ARE YOU LOOKING FOR LOVE PARTNERS IN THE RIGHT PLACES??

Hello my beloved!!!

Today is another day......We are discussing about the right places where we can meet or find our right partners.

Does it really matter where you meet a potential partner?
Can it tell you something about who they are and what they are looking for?
I strongly believe that when people are seeking a mate at certain venues, they do so with particular personality traits and with short-term or long-term intentions in mind.

Some people intentionally go to certain places in search of short-term relationships while some go to certain venues searching for long-term relationships.
So we have to be very attentive of places we met our partners.
The place you met your partner really matters, it can reveal who they are and their characters.

People that are looking for short-term relationships, you will normally meet them in Bars, Night clubs, Party, Beach, Concert, prison.
People you meet in such venues  will never take relationships serious, in fact they won't even have time to be always available whenever you need them.

I don't think bars, night clubs or parties are good places to look for love either because the kind of people who hang out in such places might be just looking to pick someone up or to be picked up for that particular day. They might be driven by alcohol just to hang out with you, not that this is always the case but that is what mostly happen.

Generally, 'wrong places' means that you are looking for the wrong kind of person to be in a relationship with, someone who can be abusive or someone who is selfish. He/she is not going to respect you.

In wrong places you are just looking for someone who will not benefit you in a relationship, because they are not suitable for a mature relationship. Most of all they may only expect you to be a fun person to be with.

There are tons of right places to meet love partners, venues like church/ fellowship, school, workplaces, conferences etc. It's good to look for a mate at the right places that will convince you about that person's good characters. 

For Instance someone you meet in church shows you already what they are into. It will encourage you to be with them and grow spiritually together, pray together, attend church services or fellowships together.

Unlike the person you met in the nightclub or party, that particular person shows you already where they spend their time and it's not easy to change their outing routine or to automatically stop them from going to such places you find them already going.

You should know where you can meet your long-term love partner, and respect their personalities.

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Be blessed!!!!

MATURE RELATIONSHIPS

How are we all doing guys???

It's good to be here with you again, i had tons of work to do but I'm finally back.

Let's get straight into our topic.....MATURE RELATIONSHIPS!!

I believe we all want that serious and mature relationship with good communication, true commitments and mature love. 

Human are visually stimulated creatures but resist the urge to judge a potential partner based solely on his or her appearance.

 So searching for the right partner it might be more helpful of being a right partner. 

You need to understand the impact of the events in your childhood on to your choice of a partner in adulthood. Bringing your old issues from childhood to awareness have to be eliminated and focus on the present.  

You should examine why you keep making the same mistakes again and again in your relationship. After completing this few life tasks then you are free to enter into a mature relationship.

How does a mature relationship look like?

1. In a mature relationship, partners acknowledge that their childhood wounds are likely to emerge in the relationship.

2. Partners have equality in the relationship with open dialogue between them.

3. The couples understand that when they feel uncomfortable with each other, they need to engage themselves into constructive conversations. Because looking outside the relationship to get the needs for the intimacy met will not help, it will rather separate them.

4. Each partner owns up to his/her faults and talks about them freely with the other. 

5. In a mature relationship, couples agree to avoid blaming or criticizing each other and they engage in constructive communication instead.

6. Couples agree to accept each other's anger and emotions, they recognize that anger must be contained and expressed in a matured manner.

7. Partners in a mature relationship develop their own strength rather than relying on the other to provide them.

A mature relationship is based on commitments, mutual respect and awareness. 

It takes a matured partner to recognize what his/her partner needs and they provide this things lovingly and without conditions. 

The ability to provide unconditional love to our partner is one of our highest life goals. 

Even though our partner's behaviours may cause us anxiety, pain or anger, we show our maturity by understanding and containing our reactions in order to make the other person feel better.

There can be no greater expression of love, then being a matured partner in a relationship.

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